Writers CONFIDENCE OVER LOW SELF-ESTEEM January 25, 2021January 25, 20213 min read Legendvibes Staff Confidence should be our lifestyle and not a feeling.A confident lifestyle should be our daily habit and not an option of how we feel.Because it is impossible to succeed without confidence.Low self-esteem and confidence don’t work together, they work against each other. Confidence defeats low self-esteem and low self-esteem defeats confidence too, depending on what we give the chance.Low self-esteem is traumatic but Confidence is the Healer.Anyone who doesn’t believe in his/herself is bound to live an unstable life in everything he or she is doing, and it boils down to affect even his/her decision making.People with this low self-esteem, don’t believe in their self enough that what they do or feel is good enough. As such they change their minds just in case they might be wrong.But confident people are never afraid of being wrong. Yes, because they have understood that they can always recover from making a mistake and don’t allow the doubt of not getting it right to imprison them or tie them up in low self-esteem.God responds to our Faith which is our Confidence in Him and not our doubt and not low self-esteem.James 1:6-8 teaches us that God can not respond to the prayer of a double-minded person. But he does respond to our Faith.(James 1:6-8 But let him ask in faith, nothing wavering. For he that wavereth is like a wave of the sea driven with the wind and tossed. 1:7 For let not that man think that he shall receive anything of the Lord. 1:8 A double-minded man is unstable in all his ways.)Avoid having feelings that you will make mistake or do something wrong if you try.I also realize that it the is goes beyond the doubt of whether one can do it right without making mistakes or not.But it involves how people feel strongly about themselves. They carry a deep-rooted stigma and just can’t appear to recognize themselves or have Confidence in their decision ability.According to a great author and teacher of self-confidence, she said and I quote. “You don’t have to feel the Confidence to be Confidence.” – Joyce Meyer.To overcome low self-esteem, each of us must learn to live beyond feelings.It is possible to feel wrong and still chose to do what is right.So, where is the feeling?So, from today you don’t have to feel confident to present yourself confidently.Just present yourself with confidence.And most importantly, we should begin to believe God’s word more than we believe our feelings.Writer’s Point:✍ Have confidence in your ability if you want to succeed.✍ Believe in yourself if you want anyone else to believe in you.✍ Don’t let low self-esteem defer your confidence.✍ Don’t make decisions based on feelings.✍ Don’t let the wrong feelings that come with low self-esteem overrule your beliefs and confidence in good decision-making.✍ Have confidence in God and believe in His Word and you shall live above low self-esteem.I believe God to help us wear our coat of confidence over every low self-esteem.And we shall succeed in all we do in this week and beyond. AMEN.Thank you so much, for reading through.Hope you get value.Do you have a Beautiful Week ahead?My name is Elizabeth Destiny Timothy.LizzyPenImpact ✍I write to impact lives.